Take the Photograph
Recently, my family experienced a loss. As we came together, it really sunk in that of all my grandpa’s belongings, it was the photographs that held the most value. These pictures, rather than his furniture or personal possessions, were the most meaningful.
The photo of my mom and her dad at one of her softball game laughing. The candid of him smoking a cigarette while riding off on his Harley. And of course, his portraits with his beloved dogs.
In looking at these photos, never once did I ruminate on any of the subject’s flaws or so-called “imperfections.” Instead, my family and I teared up at the personality captured in those priceless moments.
A hard truth in life is that nothing is guaranteed. This is why I believe so wholeheartedly in the importance of documenting each life stage, of taking the photo.
Even if you don’t like your outfit.
Even if you didn’t take the time to fix your hair or put on makeup.
Even if you don’t feel confident or attractive.
Even if you feel too heavy.
One of my ultimate goals as an empowerment photographer is to help my clients nourish their own self love. But more broadly speaking, so very many people love you. So many people value you. One day in the future, the images they have of you will be their best reminders of the life full of happy memories they’ve shared with you.
So, today, my encouragement is to take the pictures of those you love. And remember to include pictures of yourself within that category.
